What if instead of “Puttin’ on the Ritz,” in 1929 sophisticated, impeccable style, we changed to
something different? What would happen if that became something else? While still involving a “putting on” action, emotions, words or attitudes become that something different. The costs might vary; the response certainly will!
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If we put on kindness, what response will that evoke? Might another respond in kind, especially if our
action is random. There’s something about “one good deed deserves another.”
Putting on compassion might result in a heartfelt response from the recipient. The benefit would be
immeasurable while the cost – negligible. When we’re hurt physically or emotionally, knowing others
care goes beyond measure.
Adding a smile could brighten another’s day. That frown might keep others more than an arm distance
away. “Misery loves company,” I was told years ago. Her frown and sad face expressed that too. I didn’t
buy into that sentiment then nor do I now!
Layer on some laughter for good measure. Cranky and glum days come with or without the weather to
augment the feeling. Laughter can buoy the spirits even if temporarily. Usually there’s a little something
which can be funny enough to bring about some levity.
Sometimes we may need to put on patience, or so we were told years ago when traveling. That’s
probably true when our patience is tried.
We can‘t forget to add love. Putting on love every day can attract others, help our heart health and
bring about more enjoyment.
This different dress style may seem a little “Polly Anna-ish,” and could well be. I’d say it brings about
more fun, friendship and an all-round sense of well-being.
What will it be today – jeans, windbreaker, tee? I’ll choose to put on love and let the rest of the layers
emerge. What about you?
Martha (Marty) Coffin Evans, Ed.D., freelance writer with MACE Associates, LLC, can be reached at
itsmemartee@aol.com or martycoffinevans.com